The absence of an ending

 Sometimes the worst pain isn’t what happened but what never got to happen.


Not the confrontation.

Not the resolution.

Not even the honest goodbye.


I kept hoping the truth would set me free.

That one day, all the missing pieces would fall into place,

and I’d finally be able to breathe without wondering.


But when your expectations of a closure become no closure at all,

you begin to realise —

truth doesn’t always heal.

And some questions live unanswered… not because they can’t be explained,

but because the answers wouldn’t change what’s already lost.

Burn


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